If I haven’t said it enough, Blogmas has started, indeed. I have a couple decent ideas, but they are subjected to change.
My goal is of course blogging every day (given) but I am also starting to be able to open up, so you might be seeing more personal things from me. Not that I can say anyone would or wouldn’t be interested in that, but it’s worth a try.
Do you ever get asked what you want for Christmas? It might be the most wracking question for a parent. The mature side of you wants to say “nothing”, but then the less mature portion might have a huge list of items.
Partly a joke, partly true, here is a mommas Wish List:
-Paid Spa Treatment
-An hour alone. Not even a whole day.
-Breakfast in bed
-An hour to do whatever they want for enjoyment
What else would you want to put on this list?
Today, I am thankful for the nature. Outdoors are so important, and such a great, amazing thing to me. We live in a beautiful world that is taken for granted, and I think everyone needs more outside time. It helps with depression, calms people down. Best memories are made when people are outdoors.
One of my best memories is sitting outside, around a bonfire with a martini or some other type of drink. Bonfires are maybe one of my favorite things ever.
I feel like the biggest issue with outside is that in the summer, there’s sun, and the sun can burn and blister your skin. However, with enough protection for your skin, I think it’s a great thing to go out and learn something. Learn to pitch a tent, fish, something.
I am thankful today for food. Rather, the ability to buy and prepare healthy foods.
I know that there’s a lot of places that are actual food deserts, and the loss of honey bees doesn’t help, because now there might be a possible drop in food production in the future. (don’t roast me if there is and I don’t know. I don’t follow that type of thing unless its right there in my face or something. I tend not to find trouble unless it comes to me.) This all being said, I am very thankful that we currently have the ability to purchase food that is nutritious for us and our bodies.
Today, I am thankful for jobs, which gives my husband and one day I, the ability to provide for our family. If it wasn’t for having a job, my husband wouldn’t be able to provide for us while I go to school. Don’t get me wrong, I have had a job, several of them, which is why to my husband, it’s kind of my turn to succeed in school and be able to get a degree so I might be able to bring in an income. Granted, its only going to be childhood education, teaching preschoolers, at $11 an hour for even 4 hours a day for 4 days a week equals out to about almost $200 weekly. At least here I will be able to make sure we can meet all of our bills, will must husband also bringing this in. I want us to be able to be comfortable, if anything. So yes, thankful for jobs.
On to the next few days and I promise we are caught up. Thank you for being patient.
November 5th: I am thankful for God. Though I have a recent relationship with God, and still trying to figure all of that out, I am thankful that I have been shown mercy. The mercy I am talking about is, even though I am still struggling in a lot of ways, I am struggling a lot less, sad a lot less, and quite frankly, I have put the cat claws away and stopped being irrational and backstabby. This is huge for me since I am known to be that way as a defense mechanism with having a child young-ish and moving and being homeless and all that other stuff. It’s nice to see that I have been able to cope differently and pray when I need it. God has given me all this grace and mercy to be able to grow, and that’s a huge thing.
November 6th: I am thankful for my mother in law. Yup, this may be the only time you ever hear this, but I love my mother-in-law. She has helped me when it comes to growing, and how I react to certain things. Not a lot of people can sit there and talk highly of their mother-in-law, or how amazingly they raised their son, but I think mine did awesome. There’s also that I live with her, and when you live with someone, you become used to who they are and what they stand for.
November 7th: Woohoo, finally on the right day. I am thankful for the ability to go to school. Not a whole lot of mothers have this opportunity, and not a lot of people in general do, so the fact I am raising a child and have the ability to attend school with him going to school, and my lowest grade is only an 80, with things not totally being put in, this shows that this is a good thing and that school will be worth it in the long run.
Hey guys. To speed up the days and catch up, here are my thankful posts for November 2nd, November 3rd, and November 4th. Enjoy!
For November 2nd: I am thankful for my family. Rather, my husbands family who have added me as their own, whether they thought it was a good idea or not. It wouldn’t have happened if God didn’t let it, especially when my family and I are so badly estranged. Not that anybody wanted that, but it was pretty much like that before I even graduated from school. Sometimes that’s just what happens. Granted, my husbands family doesn’t like everything I do, but they will tell me rather than talking to everyone else about why they don’t like it. Even if they don’t, when they realize that there’s no talking me out of whatever I choose, then they decide they will be there for me, and that’s better than my birth family. It’s all about looking at the bright side of life. My husbands family is way better than my own, and I don’t think they know that.
November 3rd: I am thankful I have a home to go to every night. This is a big thing because my household has pretty much been homeless and it sucks. Not homeless to where we are sleeping on the street, though it almost came to that. The worst was living with two alcoholics who, one night, listerally got into such a bad fight I called my husbands aunt at 11pm or later to take Baby Chewy because I would rather him not with me than with me and possibly in danger. Since then, we have gotten on our feet and into our own apartment. Sure, it’s not a house, but it’s a roof over our heads until we can get a house.
November 4th: I am thankful for my husband. Everyone could sense this one too, probably. Quick background; my husband and I met online and by the grace of God, and help from others, I was able to move across the US and be with him and his family ((almost)) 3 years ago. To me that’s wild. I knew I loved him as a teenager and I still am in love with him, and love the fact he is not only emotionally supportive, but also he is supportive of my decisions, no matter what is it that I want to do. To find that kind of quality in a man is so amazing. For someone to go from a lazy divorcee to adopting a woman’s child, busting your butt to get a job to support your family and to be working on getting a raise…that’s kind of huge in my book. That’s why I am thankful for my husband.